What if's

What if? What do you think? This is what I've been hearing all night. Is it good timing? What mistakes have I made or have I made bad decisions. My hubby has asked me hear questions all night how can I answer them. We are discussing the actions and possiblities of moving but what cost do we move? Wish my hubby would have listened to me in the first place but these questions he has been asking I can't help but say I told you so. As life goes on stress levels become higher but with age comes wisdom I hope my wisdom can out match my stress in times like these.

Why I married my best friend!

There are many reasons why I first dated the man I am now married too. He has a handful or two of great qualities that I love about him. First of all he's super cute. He was an offensive lineman in college playing football. You would think a guy like him would be mean and loud but he is the opposite he's a big teddy bear. Back when we first met he was quite and reserved. I was more on the outgoing, wild side when we first met. My friends used to wonder why I was with him!!?? I guess the old story goes opposites attract. My hubby can be the compassionate, love-able, wonderful man I have grown to love. He has been their for me in time of need and I have done the same for him. He is a lot of the time realistic side of our marriage and I am the emotional side. We've been married for a year and 5 months and I could have asked for better! Love you Hubby!
xoxo  

Top 10 things to think about before marriage

1. Where you will live as Husband and Wife?
2.  Political Views
3.  In- Laws
4.  Plans for a family= Kids
5. Views on Religion/ Faith
6. Views on how to spend your earnings
7. Hobbies= Things of interest for both parties
8. Views about intimacy
9.  Time spent with technology such as your computer, cell phone etc.
10. Future Expectations!!!

Never satisfied

I always find myself to never being satisfied with what I'm doing and where I am in life. The never ending chase for happiness it feels like. What does it mean to be happy?

Christmas time

It's that time of year ... Shopping, visiting and being merry lol. It's hard when your family is in another country and your trying to save for moving to enjoy the season. I'm having a hard time being merry my father isn't well and we are budgeting to move this summer; feels like the days are going by. I need to make each day count instead of counting my days! That was great advice from my hubby that I now think about every day. I caught myself crying today telling my mom that I might not being coming home for Christmas. Hard thing to do these days but if I want to move I can afford to travel. Married life!! I've been told its to early to be stressed I don't even have kids! I can even think about kids right now. Crazy how life rolls!